The heart of a woman is a beautiful tapestry of emotions, strength, and faith. The concept of a woman’s heart is a recurring theme in Scripture, which gives profound insight into their character, resilience, and devotion. Throughout history, women have played a vital role in shaping society, families, and communities.
They are revealed as influential and powerful individuals and their heart is often revealed through their stories. Scripture definitely exposes the range of qualities that help to offer insights into their hearts. Let us embark on a spiritual journey, exploring the best bible verses that illuminate the heart of a woman.
Proverbs 31:1 – An Oracle From a Mother
“The words of King Lemuel. An oracle that his mother taught him.”
This verse introduces the section of the book of Proverbs that contains wisdom passed down from King Lemuel’s mother to him. A mother’s wisdom that is shared will give guidance to her children and shape the character and actions of her children.
Proverbs 31:10 – A Woman’s Heart is Precious
“An excellent wife who can find? She is far more precious than jewels.”
Solomon describes the qualities of a good woman. Wisdom, diligence, care for her family, and compassion for others are the fruits of her hand. These qualities in her are more than anything you could desire. Her actions and character reveal a heart that fears the Lord and seeks to honor Him.”
Luke 1:38 – Obedient to the Cause of God
“And Mary said, “Behold, I am the servant of the Lord; let it be to me according to your word.” And the angel departed from her.”
Mary’s response to the angel’s announcement displays her heart of obedience and submission to God’s plan. Her willingness to say, “Let it be to me according to your word,” reflects a heart that trusts God’s sovereignty. Mary’s response to the angel’s message highlights that she was willing to submit to God’s plan and not her own understanding.
1 Corinthians 11:3 – She Honors Her Head
“But I want you to understand that the head of every man is Christ, the head of a wife is her husband, and the head of Christ is God.”
A woman’s virtue comes to life when she is able to submit to her husband. The husband in scripture is said to be the head of a wife. Her husband extends his love for her as Christ, who is the head of the man, does to him and symbolically to the church.
The relationship between the love and respect of a woman for her husband (her head) is one that helps to highlight the interrelatedness of the union with Christ and the church.
Luke 1:46-50 – A Humbled Heart Rejoices
“And Mary said, “My soul magnifies the Lord, and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior, for he has looked on the humble estate of his servant. For behold, from now on all generations will call me blessed; for he who is mighty has done great things for me, and holy is his name. And his mercy is for those who fear him from generation to generation.”
Mary’s song of praise through these scriptures reveals her heart of humility and gratitude for the grace of God. Her words reflect a deep understanding of His mercy and a heart that loves Him. Through her experience here, we are taught that the abundance of the heart propels one to act in consistent and loving ways towards the Master.
Proverbs 18:22 – Finding a Wife is a Good Thing
“He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.”
Solomon conveys the message that there is value in finding a suitable and godly wife. A godly wife’s heart is loving and supportive and this is a precious gift from God. This wife will bring blessings and favor to her husband, as she is not just a companion but also a blessing, a source of goodness.
John 11:21 and 27– A Heart of Faith
“Martha said to him, “I know that he will rise again in the resurrection on the last day… She said to him, “Yes, Lord; I believe that you are the Christ, the Son of God, who is coming into the world.”
As Martha interacts with Jesus after her brother Lazarus’ death, she shows her heart’s depth of faith. Her confession that Jesus is the Messiah demonstrates her belief in His power and her trust in His plan. She proves herself to be a woman of God and one trusts Him with all her heart.
Proverbs 31:25 – Clothed in Strength
“Strength and dignity are her clothing, and she laughs at the time to come.”
In the face of adversity, a woman’s heart shines with courage and fearlessness. Like a virtuous woman, she is not afraid of the challenges that come her way. Instead, she stands firm, trusts in the Lord’s guidance, and finds strength in His promises. Her courage is rooted in her faith, empowering her to overcome obstacles and inspire those around her.
John 20:11-18 – Loyal and Devoted to the Master
“Jesus said to her, “Woman, why are you weeping? Whom are you seeking?” Supposing him to be the gardener, she said to him, “Sir, if you have carried him away, tell me where you have laid him, and I will take him away.”
Mary Magdalene’s encounter with the risen Jesus at the tomb highlights her heart’s devotion and loyalty. Her recognition of Jesus’ voice reflects her deep relationship with Him. A woman whose heart is devoted to God knows His voice.
Acts 16:14 – A Responsive Heart
“One who heard us was a woman named Lydia, from the city of Thyatira, a seller of purple goods, who was a worshiper of God. The Lord opened her heart to pay attention to what was said by Paul.”
Lydia was a seller of purple fabrics which made fine clothes. She opened her heart to receive the message of Paul. Her heart’s responsiveness to God’s Word leads to her conversion and the conversion of her household. A woman who is open to God’s leading can transform her entire household.
Ephesians 5:33 (ESV) – Respect for Her Husband
“However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.”
The apostle Paul guides the church into establishing a healthy relationship between a man and his wife. When the husband loves his wife, her heart opens to respect him. This two-way interaction creates the environment for a beautiful home where the Holy Spirit dwells.
Acts 9:36 – Generosity in Service
“Now there was in Joppa a disciple named Tabitha, which, translated, means Dorcas. [a] She was full of good works and acts of charity.”
In the story of Dorcas’, a disciple of Jesus Christ, good deeds transcend time. Her story is described as full of good works and acts of charity. She was deeply committed to living out her faith through her actions. Her reputation was built on her remarkable dedication to performing good deeds and showing compassion through acts of charity.
Her heart is marked by a desire to serve and care for others in need.
Titus 2: 3-5 – A Heart That Can be Emulated
“Older women likewise are to be reverent in behavior, not slanderers or slaves to much wine. They are to teach what is good, and so train the young women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be reviled.”
Aged women are expected to be teachers of good things. They are to exhibit respectable behavior that can be emulated by younger women. Not only are they to exhibit these behaviors but actively teach young women honorable ways to care for their husband and their home. In doing so God will be worshiped.
Ruth 1:16-17 – Loyalty and Commitment
“But Ruth said, “Do not urge me to leave you or to return from following you. For where you go I will go, and where you lodge I will lodge. Your people shall be my people and your God my God. Where you die I will die, and there will I be buried. May the Lord do so to me and more also if anything but death parts me from you.”
Ruth’s declaration to her mother-in-law Naomi, “Where you go, I will go, and where you stay I will stay,” reflects her heart’s loyalty and commitment. Naomi was a strong woman and Ruth knew that she too could be strengthened in that way if she stayed close to her. Her commitment was not only to life and growth but also to Naomi even in death.
1 Timothy 2:9-10 – Modesty and Godliness
“Likewise also that women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly attire, but with what is proper for women who profess godliness—with good works.”
Paul here is instructing women to dress themselves in a way that reflects respectability, modesty, and self-control. This guidance discourages elaborate hairstyles and clothing that will draw inappropriate attention to oneself but rather those that honor God and promote a demeanor of modesty and self-discipline.
Genesis 18:12 – Laughter and Faith
“So Sarah laughed to herself, saying, “After I am worn out, and my lord is old, shall I have pleasure?”
Sarah laughed when she heard she would be pregnant in her old age. She was skeptical because the promise seemed impossible to fulfill. However, Sarah’s heart eventually embraces God’s faithfulness and ability to fulfill His promise to her. Isaac, who was later conceived and born, the name means “laughter,” which symbolizes both the initial disbelief and eventual joy that Sarah experienced.
Proverbs 31:30 – Fearing the Lord
“Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.”
The book of Proverbs continues to provide guidance for the godly woman. Believers should value inner qualities that go beyond the surface, rather than external appearances. What should be most important is a woman whose life is lived in godly reverence, and who has a pure heart. These are truly worth admiration and praise.
1 Samuel 2:1-10 – Gratefulness for Answered Prayer
“And Hannah prayed and said, ‘My heart exults in the Lord; my horn is exalted in the Lord.”
Hannah’s prayer of thanksgiving after the birth of her son Samuel expresses her joy, praise, and recognition of God’s sovereignty. Like Hanna, a woman who is filled with gratitude will praise God all the days of her life. It is not about answered prayers but about recognizing these answered prayers and praising God for future blessings.
John 12:1-8 – A Sacrificial Heart of Love
“Mary, therefore, took a pound of expensive ointment made from pure nard, and anointed the feet of Jesus and wiped his feet with her hair. The house was filled with the fragrance of the perfume.”
Mary’s act of anointing Jesus’ feet with costly perfume reveals her love, devotion, and recognition of Jesus’ significance. This act reflects a heart filled with reverence, gratitude, and selflessness. The further use of her most precious possession to anoint Jesus’ feet reveals her heart’s desire to express her devotion in a sacrificial manner without fear that others will notice.
John 4:15 – A Desire for More
“The woman said to him, “Sir, give me this water so that I will not be thirsty or have to come here to draw water.”
The Samaritan woman’s response to Jesus reveals her curiosity, thirst for truth, and longing for something deeper in life. She accepted Jesus’ love with her whole heart, as she recognized that He had all that her heart really desired. A strong woman will recognize her need for Christ’s transforming work in her life.
Proverbs 31:26 – She Speaks Wisdom and Kindness
“She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.”
A good woman is enriched with wisdom and knowledge, and she desires growth. Her words are seasoned with grace and kindness, and she offers valuable insights to those who seek her counsel. She constantly seeks understanding and imparts wisdom to those she encounters.
Mark 12:42-43 – Giving All for the Cause of Christ
“And a poor widow came and put in two small copper coins, which make a penny. And he called his disciples to him and said to them, “Truly, I say to you, this poor widow has put in more than all those who are contributing to the offering box.”
The widow described in Mark has a heart of giving. She not only gives what she has, but she gives all she has. Her willingness to give her two small coins highlights her sacrificial heart and trust in God’s provision. She is not concerned about what the world thinks of her but is focused on pleasing God in her life.
Esther 4: 16 – Confidence in the Face of Death
“Go, gather all the Jews to be found in Susa, and hold a fast on my behalf, and do not eat or drink for three days, night or day. I and my young women will also fast as you do. Then I will go to the king, though it is against the law, and if I perish, I perish.”
Esther’s Relationship with God made her brave enough to approach the king on behalf of her people. Her heart’s commitment to her faith and her people’s welfare made her step out boldly even with the possibility of being killed.
1 Peter 3:3-4 (ESV) – Outward Beauty and Inward Virtues
“Do not let your adorning be external—the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewelry, or the clothing you wear—but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God’s sight is very precious.”
Imperishable beauty marks the heart of a godly woman. Prioritizing inner character over external appearance helps to cultivate virtues like gentleness, humility, and a quiet spirit. This does not mean we should neglect outward appearance entirely, but it reminds us that genuine beauty comes from a heart transformed by God’s grace.
Proverbs 31:21 – Fearlessness and Preparedness
“She is not afraid of snow for her household, for all her household are clothed in scarlet.”
This verse emphasizes a godly woman’s fearlessness and preparedness in the face of challenging circumstances. The fruits of her hand see her being attentive to the needs of her household and taking steps to ensure their well-being. The woman’s ability to stand strong in the face of adversity is a testament to her unyielding spirit and trust in the Lord’s providence.
Proverbs 31:11 – His Heart Trusts Her
“The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain.”
Solomon continues to highlight the qualities of a virtuous woman in this verse. There is value in a wife who is trustworthy, capable, and supportive. This wife has the ability to manage the household, make wise financial decisions, and contribute positively to the family’s prosperity.
Her husband’s confidence in her abilities and character allows for a harmonious and healthy relationship. Her husband’s trust in her not only reflects her capabilities but also highlights the strength of their relationship.
Proverbs 21:9 -A Quarrelsome Wife
“It is better to live in a corner of the housetop than in a house shared with a quarrelsome wife.”
This verse from the book of Proverbs gives profound words of wisdom on the significance of nurturing a peaceful and respectful atmosphere within the home, where one can grow emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. When the home environment is filled with conflict and strife, this is detrimental.
Therefore it is important to have a wife who pursues peace and whose heart is aligned with God.
Gen 2:22 (ESV) – Bone of my Bones
“And the rib that the Lord God had taken from the man he made into a woman and brought her to the man. Then the man said, “This at last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.”
From the beginning, the woman was made as a support, to provide joy and comfort to a man. The verse describes the creation of Eve from Adam’s rib. It symbolizes the close connection and partnership between them. This partnership provides balance in the home environment.
As Adam did, men should cherish the heart of their wives so that genuine Christlike partnerships can exist.
Proverbs 12:4 – The Crown of Her Husband
“An excellent wife is the crown of her husband, but she who brings shame is like rottenness in his bones.”
Just as a crown adorns and signifies the honor and dignity of a ruler, so does an “excellent wife” adds value, honor, and blessing to her husband’s life. Her noble character, godly qualities, and contributions are a source of pride and upliftment. The opposite of this is also true. A wife without values and principles will destroy a man’s life.